I want to first start out by saying that this is not an attack in any way on any of my Christian brothers or sisters, but rather a post that I hope will shed light on an attitude and practice within much of the church today that, from what I see in Scripture, is contrary to how Jesus and the early church lived, as they strove to obey Jesus’ command to “go and make disciples of all nations,” and to live out the gospel, by loving others and sharing the message of truth, the gospel of our salvation. So, though it may offend some, my intention and purpose in writing this is to speak the truth in love, and so I cannot be silent.
The other day, someone asked me…
“Hey Spencer, you’re not going to share the gospel and be all preachy when we’re over there, are you?”
That question got me REALLY angry, and I’m going to explain why in just a few. But first, before I go into reasons from Scripture on why God doesn’t want Christians to have this attitude, I’m going to assume a couple of things.
Someone who asks this question has either been taught wrongly, or does not understand Jesus’ call to lose our lives for His sake and the gospel. Or, they’ve been taught that someone can somehow know how they can be saved, just by looking at the life of a Christian, which again is what many Christians wrongly believe. Or, they simply don’t want to offend anyone by speaking the name of Jesus, and would rather not be put in an awkward position where they might suffer some persecution, or reviling, or some other insult a result of sharing the gospel. Or they probably think that someone like me who speaks the truth plainly without watering it down is not doing it like Jesus would, or is not the most loving way to do it, or that in order to share the gospel, you need to have a strong relationship with the person. It may not be one of these reasons as to why they were trying to get me to not share the gospel with this single mom, but nonetheless, whatever the reason, it’s against what Jesus is calling His followers to do.
I could just leave it like it was, and never address the issue, but how would I be loving them in not telling them how God calls us to glorify Him in sharing the gospel, and speaking the name of Jesus, no matter what the cost? And so I’m determined to lay out the truth on this issue, so that a person’s decision to not share the gospel will not be based on ignorance, but a blatant disregard for Jesus’ call on His followers. I’m speaking the truth in love to anyone that wants to know how Jesus shows us how to live as His followers in the Scriptures…
Lie #1: “I don’t need to share the gospel with anyone… they can just look at my life and see Jesus in me.” (I’m going to be really sarcastic here…)
Right… so someone is going to magically figure out that they are a sinner from birth, separated from God and currently under His wrath and condemnation, and that Jesus came to reconcile them to God by bearing all our sins in His body on the cross, thereby satisfying the righteous judgment of God, and that they can be saved from the coming judgment and wrath of God through faith in Jesus’ death and resurrection? Hmmm… not so sure the apostles or the early church would have lived the way they did with that kind of attitude. I don’t think their lives would be in constant jeopardy with being so silent in the face of opposition from those around them who denied that truth. And yet, they continued to speak to those who opposed them most. To show that someone must hear the message of truth to believe and be saved, here’s Paul reasoning with the Romans in Romans 10:14-17…
How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? [3] And how are they to hear without someone preaching? 15 And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, “How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!” 16 But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Isaiah says, “Lord, who has believed what he has heard from us?” 17 So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.
So, it’s obvious from this passage that Paul is explaining that no one can come to saving faith in Jesus apart from someone going and telling them about Jesus, who He is and what He did for them, proclaiming the word of Christ. Someone has to hear the word of Christ, and then God causes them to be born again through faith in Jesus, believing the message of what God has done for them through Jesus. If you don’t share it, they can’t hear it, and they won’t be saved.
Lie #2: “I believe in Friendship Evangelism, which is a much more non-offensive approach to sharing the gospel. After all, this is how Jesus did it.”
This excuse is given by many Christians, who were either taught that this is how God wants them to go about sharing the gospel, or who simply don’t want to be at odds with any person that might oppose the gospel God is calling us to preach to people. Nowhere in Scripture will you find such an approach to sharing the gospel, and this excuse is usually given by those who do not want to be put in an awkward situation. Should we be building relationships with people in hopes that they will come to believe the gospel? Yes! But if you are more concerned about saving your relationship rather than the salvation of their soul, you are not ready to follow Jesus. Listen to what Jesus says concerning the cost of following Him and our relationships with others…
“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”
So clearly, there is a cost to following Jesus, which may result in a division in the relationship with people we love. Why? Well, I seriously doubt that Jesus says this be because a follower of Jesus never spoke the name of Jesus to a stranger, or remained silent in sharing the gospel with those that they loved. On the contrary, it is because of speaking the name of Jesus, and telling people the truth about Jesus and the judgment to come, and how they are separated from God and under His wrath, that family members, strangers, friends, and coworkers will malign, insult, and persecute you. A sinner is naturally rebellious towards God and does not want to come into the light, just like I used to be before God saved me through faith in Jesus. They don’t want to hear the truth, that they will be held accountable for their actions on the day of judgment, or that there is a God that they have to answer to, or that there’s only one way to God, etc. (I could go on and on with reasons I’ve heard on why they dislike Jesus). These are all things that sinners need to hear and understand, and only by the Holy Spirit will anyone come to a true understanding of who they are before God, and who God is for them in Jesus Christ. But how will they hear and believe if no one will tell them these things for fear of __________.
There is a point that needs to be said here…
There is a great lie in the church today that many Christians have believed, and it is that you must not be truly loving someone if you tell them something that is true that they don’t want to hear. I cannot TELL you how much this hurts God’s heart. Let me give you an illustration that I hope will convince you that telling someone the truth (no matter how they respond to it) is the most loving thing you can do.
You go to the doctor one day for your annual checkup, and you’re just about finished with the appointment. Before you leave, the doctor tells you that he found a bump, and that they will need to do a blood test to find out if it’s cancerous. After a couple of days, the results come back and the doctor calls you to let you know that the bump is in fact cancerous, and that it’s malignant. He tells you that it’s an aggressive form of cancer, which statistics show that more than 80% of the people who get it die within a year of contracting it.
Now, let’s say you are that patient. Even though you are extremely sad about hearing that you have cancer, and that there’s a good chance you’ll die shortly from it, wouldn’t you be also extremely grateful and thankful that the doctor told you that they found it in your body? Though you might be angry at first, wouldn’t you be glad that the doctor told you the truth about your condition, instead of hiding it from you, or just simply telling you that the bump wasn’t that big of a deal? Though you didn’t feel that anything was wrong or cancerous in your body, you would be grateful for the doctor telling you about it because now, hopefully, something can medically be done to remove the cancer.
Now put yourself in the doctor’s position. You know that this cancer is very aggressive, and that telling your patient about it might not be well received. But because you love and care for your patient, you tell them. For you to do otherwise would be the most unloving thing you could ever do as a doctor. If that’s true for a doctor, how much more is it true for those of us who have come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. God has saved us from eternal punishment, and given us eternal life through faith in Jesus. If that’s true, then we should be telling as many people as we can about the cancer that every human being has, which WILL result in eternal punishment, no matter how they respond to the news. For us to have the greatest gift that God could ever give us, and for us to be rescued from God’s righteous judgment like we have been through faith in Jesus by God’s grace, the worst thing we could ever do is to treat this gift as though we should only share it with those who want to hear and are open to hearing it, or to resort to the “friendship evangelism” excuse, which limits people to only sharing it with those they’ve built a long-term relationship with… If we did, we would be like the doctor who knows the deadly cancer that their patient has, but refuses to tell them, or is too afraid to tell them for fear of how they might react to the truth of what’s infected their body. Is this how Jesus lived? Contrary to what many Christians in the American church today believe or want to believe, Jesus lived to love and serve others, but part of his loving others was constantly sharing truths with people who often would malign and want to kill him because of that truth, because he said things like, “unless you repent, you too will perish,” or things like, “you brood of vipers.” Behind those seemingly harsh words is a love that compelled him to speak the truth, and not water it down. He spoke the truth plainly because He knew what was in store for them, and for Him to not warn them would be completely sinful. And so it is with us, which is why Jesus will be ashamed to speak our names before God the Father if we are unwilling to speak His name before men.
So what’s the solution, and what should our attitude and practice be as Christians. Or the better question is, what was the attitude and practice of Jesus?
1. Suffering is a sign that you are living a godly life, and that you belong to God.
How do I know this? Scripture tells us plainly.
“Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted…”
That’s right. If you’re following Jesus the way that He has called us to live, you will be persecuted. Why? Because you won’t be simply living your life, going to work, just waiting for God to bring someone along your path maybe once a year that you can share the gospel with. No, if we are following Jesus, we will be persecuted because we will be preaching and reaching the lost with the gospel, including those who oppose us and who wish to harm us as a result of the message that we preach and the name that we bear, not fearing men who kill the body, but cannot kill the soul.
Here’s another example of God’s calling on our lives as Christians who are following Jesus…
“Yet if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed, but let him glorify God in that name.”
and again…
“Only let your manner of life be worthy [8] of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel, 28 and not frightened in anything by your opponents. This is a clear sign to them of their destruction, but of your salvation, and that from God. 29 For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake, 30 engaged in the same conflict that you saw I had and now hear that I still have.”
More to Come Later… Feel free to comment and correct me if Scripture says differently than what I’ve posted here…